Fourth
Sunday in Lent
March
30, 2014
Matthew
20
The
Cup He Drank; The Cup We Drink
In
the name of Jesus.
I.
Why
so mad?
Why
were the other disciples so angry with James and John? We could try
and take their indignation in the best way and think that they were
upset that James and John would be thinking about seating charts when
Jesus was talking about His own death.
However,
the truth is much more likely that they were angry because James and
John and their mom had cut ahead of them in line. Jesus had just told
them that they would be seated around Him.
Matthew
19:28
Jesus
said to them, “Truly I tell you, at the renewal of all things, when
the Son of Man sits on his glorious throne, you who have followed me
will also sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of
Israel.”
So
they were not angry at the question itself; they were mad that they
hadn't asked Jesus the exact same question first!
Strangely
the only person who wasn't upset was the one person who should have
been: Jesus. They had missed the point completely (again), yet Jesus
is mercifully still teaching them why He had come. He had come and
the time was near at hand to drink His cup.
II.
The
Cup He Drank
Jesus'
cup was a bitter one. The all-powerful ever-active Ruler of the
universe, the One who keeps all galaxies and quarks and atoms
spinning, is going to be passive. His enemies will act against Him
and He will remain quiet.
Matthew
20:18-19
The
Son of Man will be handed over to the chief priests and scribes, and
they will condemn Him to death. Then they will hand Him over to the
Gentiles to be mocked, flogged, and crucified, and He will be
resurrected on the third day.
All
the verbs reveal how Jesus took His cup: He will be handed over, He
will be condemned, He will be handed over again, He will be mocked,
He will be flogged, and He will be crucified. This is how He drank
His cup, passively, quietly, obediently.
III.
The
Ingredients of His Cup
Where
did His cup come from? What was in it? The pride of the disciples was
in it, wickedly fighting over who was the best of the bunch.
Our
pride is in His cup also. Like the disciples, it is always easy to
point out pride in others. But isn't it pride that assumes that we
aren't proud? When your wife accuses you of being too proud, do you
become defensive? Do you go on the offensive and point out her sins,
so that your contribution to Jesus' cup is forgotten? Children, when
your dad points out your pride when you refuse to obey him, do you
scream and shout? Do you run and pout? That's pride because you know
better than he does. Pride is a bitter cup. And Jesus drank our
sinful pride for us.
IV.
The
Cup We Drink
Jesus'
cup is the cross. And He drank it to the last dregs, to the last
drop. And now He calls you to drink your cup. Dead men tell no tales
and drink no drink. But the Spirit has called you by the Gospel and
now you are alive. For the living, drinking is one of
the most important things that you do.
For
the living Christian, Jesus calls you to drink your cup, which is
like His. He calls you to carry your cross.
Mark
8:34
If
anyone wants to be My follower, he must deny himself, take up his
cross, and follow Me.
Drink
your cup. Take your lumps. When your wife accuses you of pride, you'd
better assume that she's right. Take it like a man and ask for
forgiveness. Don't rationalize. Don't make excuses. Don't bring up
her contributions to Jesus' cup. So what if she's bringing up your
sins to avoid her own. She's still right. And when you aren't
defensive about your own pride, you may give her breathing room to be
honest about her own. Bear your cross to help her bear hers.
Drink
your cup, kids. When your dad punishes you for not listening, don't
shout or pout. Say that you're sorry and then listen to him and do
what he says. Dads don't always know what they're doing, and they do
make bad calls (your brother probably was the one who
started it) but your dad is trying to help you. And when your dad
asks you for your forgiveness for losing his temper, don't despise
him. Thank God that you have a dad who knows what it is to forgive
and to be forgiven. He is drinking his cup by bearing the cross of a
father. Drink yours by bearing the cross of a child.
V.
A
Family Cup
Jesus
and His followers are a family. And families fight. We fight about
who's the best. He drank your cup of pride. He forgives us for the
sake of the cup He drank. By drinking He has brought you into His
family and made His Father in heaven, your Father. And
You now give us food and drink, Your Body and Blood, as we gather as
Your family at Your supper table to be fed. You put the food and
drink in our mouths like a dear father feeding his dear little
children. And that is what we will always be, seated around You now
and in eternity.
In
the name of the Father
and
of the † Son
and
of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.