Fifth
Sunday after Pentecost
June
23, 2013
Luke
9:23
Take
Up Your Cross
In
the name of Jesus.
Why
are there grouchy old people? Why do young and middle-aged people
stare at little screens all day long? You might not think that these
two problems are related, but they are.
Old
grouches are grouchy because they spent years and decades of their
life doing what they wanted, when they wanted to do it. And now they
are old. They don't get to do what they want to do anymore. Their
kids tell them what to do or their nurse does.
Grouches
are grouchy because they spent their life devoted to their career or
to their family, but now they've been forced to retire and their kids
moved away. They're too old to play golf and they can't run the Bix
anymore. So they're grouchy.
They
now can't avoid seeing the truth that's always been there: we aren't
God. But the grouches spent their whole life dedicated to worshiping
themselves. They worshiped by doing what they wanted, when they
wanted to.
The
iPhone or Pad that you might be staring into later today (hopefully
not now) makes loving yourself easy to such a degree that televisions
are green with envy.
I
go to the Eisenhower playground and I see a mom and dad absorbed with
their smartphone, while their kids are playing. Are they working? Is
it Facebook? Doesn't really matter—the underlying evil is the same.
They love themselves. They're the most important thing going and
they need to be happy.
For
some happiness is found in constant stimulation from a variety of
sources. For others happiness is found in a routine that never
changes.
For
still others happiness is found in being left alone and leaving
others alone, something that's easier than ever in our convenience
culture. A father at another playground told me casually that his
12-year old daughter never gets up before noon during the summer. He
made it clear that he was not going to be the one to make her
grouchy. Let her sleep and thus be happy. At the risk of sounding
like a grouch, that stinks.
Take
up your cross and follow Me. Jesus tells us that this means doing
hard things, and the hardest thing of all is denying self. For
those playground parents glued to their cheap plastic battery,
denying self means putting it away and getting up and engaging with
your kids. Don't watch it; watch them. For that other dad, denying
self means making it clear to your little girl that she is not a
grown-up and not letting act her like one.
Don't
get me wrong. This isn't about getting kids up by 8 during the
holidays or destroying tech. I am amused by the rap-making app on the
iPad and I like listening to my kids' Patty-Patty Cake, Baker's Man
get turned into a mild suburban rap.
The
point is: I'm not God. Jesus is. And He calls on us to follow Him by
denying our desire to worship ourselves.
How
do you follow Him? Start by saying His name. Say His name today. Say
His name tomorrow. Worship Him at home. Set up a special place for
Jesus in your home and let Him speak to you from the Bible. Read a
section from the Small Catechism out loud. Make Jesus visible to
yourself and family by reading His promises aloud in your house. Pray
at home. That is a radical idea. Do it.
Dr.
David Scaer writes: “The Gospel is at work through one person in
the home, and the best missionaries are a believing mother or father
whose life is a preaching of salvation for their spouses and
children... The best missionaries are parents who bring their
children to church for baptism and those who are patient with their
unbelieving spouses.”
Be
patient also with your unbelieving children. We have lost our next
generation, our grown children. Most have moved away and sadly some
refuse to eat and drink at their nearby Lutheran church. Denying
yourself means being patient with these children. Every day speak
their names to Christ and call on His mercy and ask Him to send His
Word into their lives so that their stubborn self-imposed starvation
is brought to an end. And then be a voice in their lives that urges
them to church. Be the answer to your own prayer in the name of
Christ.
But
being patient doesn't mean excusing their apathy towards church, the
very place where they receive the promises of Jesus. Giving college
kids and grown children a pass when it comes to their indifference to
Christ is a way in which we worship ourselves and deny Him.
Being
patient means that we—especially parents, pastors, and elders—take
time to engage these souls who are starving themselves. Picking up
our crosses means that when someone refuses the spiritual care that
is available to them here at Gethsemane or in their new town, we
recognize that fact.
Not
going to church is a sin because it is spiritual suicide (John 15).
It's time to stop denying this fact and follow Jesus at all costs.
Bearing your cross means having your children or your members think
that you are a grouch, a jerk, and worse.
Who
do people say I am? The Christ of God, who will be rejected and be
killed and be raised on the third day.
Who
am you? A wretched old grouch who belongs to Him through water, word,
and wine, Baptism, Preaching, and Communion.
Let
us pray.
Lord
Jesus, forgive our grouchiness, which comes from how much we love
ourselves. Crush our worship of self and turn our hearts to You.
In
the name of the Father and of the †
Son and of the Holy Spirit.